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Don’t be a Pinterest fail

I’m not gonna lie, I am guilty of getting in to a spiritual hygiene routine, which is wonderful, but I take it one step too far and become OBSESSED with the routines. I will get to the point I feel like it’s bad luck if I miss a step.

I become so focused on micro managing my manifestation process that I can’t see or I miss all the easy options the universe gives me.

I’m the person who sees exactly what I want online, but instead of spending $50.00 on the item I want, I spend $75.00 on the supplies and waste 5 hours making a shitty version, which I then accept as what I deserve because clearly I didn’t deserve the real version, since mine turned out bad. Seems super logical right?!

How often do you do a version of this in your life? Take the harder route because the easy route is too good to be true. Miss the cues because it came too easily. Ignore the offer because you haven’t struggled enough. This is all literally the same logic we put in to our Pinterest fails.

We are convinced that we can’t have exactly what we want. So we pare down your dream to what we would accept. And we struggle to get that watered down version. Meanwhile, the universe is like…. if that’s what you want…. ok…..

So, stop doing that! Accept that offer, see that cue, know that both are the universe making your life easy because you deserve it!

It’s one thing to be crafty and have a good time making something unique. It’s another to try to copy something on the cheap because you don’t think you deserve the real deal. See the difference?

Schedule a basic reading and add on a situational reading to help see where you get stuck! I’ll also give you a few tailored suggestions on how to change these blocks quickly and easily.

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I can’t wait till….

I can’t wait till…..

I recently caught myself saying this WAY to much. “I can’t wait till….” is a happiness killing phrase. It causes you to look over what’s happening now and puts too much power in what may happen in the future.

I realized as I was putting the “15” on my son’s birthday cake that the last 15 years have sped by. I have so many amazing memories, but I also have a lot of “I can’t wait till’s”. It’s like the Adam Sandler movie where he has a remote that allows him to fast forward through the unpleasant parts of life. You miss the good stuff too. And sometimes the annoying stuff actually is the good stuff.

So the next time you catch yourself saying “I can’t wait till…”. Stop. And enjoy what you are dealing with.

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Lack Mentality

My car is convinced I’m starving him because he can see the bottom of his bowl. He can’t see the food around it, he only sees what he doesn’t have. This is lack mentality. I used to think it only applied to how you saw money. It came to me the other day, that my lack mentality shows up in how I address food. Kind of like my cat.

In my case tho, I restrict my calories, convinced I will gain weight if I have any “no no items”. In my head sugar of any kind goes straight to my hips. And because I have been brought up to believe that how I look is all important, I restrict myself.

I kept getting the message to let go of the lack mentality that isn’t serving me, and I kept thinking “why is this coming to me!?” My relationship with money is healthy. But food, yeah, that is anything but healthy.

I was raised by a woman who thought I only looked great when I was basically starving myself. At the age of 11 she told me I needed to make sure I wasn’t too fat. I was constantly told to suck my stomach in, and called thunder thighs. (Mind you I was a competitive gymnast my entire life).

When I was pregnant, and shortly after my c-sections, my mom would show me her post baby pics bragging about how quickly she got back in her jeans… then would tell me “you’ll get back to yourself soon”.

Once she died, I realized just how unhealthy she was. I realized I could never say the things she said to me to my kids. It was eye opening. Yet my relationship with food didn’t improve.

I was talking to a fellow calorie/carb-a-phobe the other day who said that the calorie counter I suggested to her suggested she eat WAY too many carbs. And that’s when I realized how the relationship to lack.

Food is energy, it is literally how our body fuels itself. If we restrict it, it finds ways to store “energy”. It figured out ways to keep itself alive. How can I be on the vibration of abundance and be simultaneously be obsessed about eating a normal 1500 calorie diet (I was down to 1000 calories while working out, and was perplexed as to why I was exhausted).

So long story short, if you are not seeing abundance in your life, where are you restricting yourself in an unhealthy way?! It can be friends, love, food, entertainment. I’m not saying to binge in any of these areas, but find out what is normal, and trust that it’s normal, and your perspective is skewed.

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No Man is an Island

This may shock you as it shocked Mj, but if you want to manifest ANYTHING you MUST include other people. I tend to forget this or at the very least overlook this aspect of manifestation.

I kept getting the message that I needed to work on my relationships, to which I kept thinking, my marriage is fine! We are happier than we have ever been. But, I listened to my guides and put on a “relationship meditation”. I figured it wouldn’t hurt to be happier, lol.

Not more than 5 minutes after listening to this meditation, my renter texted me saying she wanted to buy the house she’s renting from me (I had told her I wanted to sell) and at the same time my realtor/good friend texted me also. Right there I was shown why relationships matter….

So, I’m now on a mission to reach out whenever I get the whim to reach out. I’m going to smile at the people around me more, and engage in conversations with the cashiers and waitresses. I’m embarrassed to say that I have been known to be the person who seems oblivious to everyone.

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Exciting stuff!

I just completed level two!

This means I can know help you understand why the dog is suddenly allergic to his food, the electrical outlet in your kitchen isn’t working and your suddenly making dumb mistakes at work. I can help you understand the root cause and where it derives from. I can also help you understand your life lesson, do. Relationship reading, introduce you to spirit your spirit guides (and how they get your attention) and read your chakras.

This sounds like at lot, and it is, but man is it eye opening! Get your reading now at the low cost of $125.00. In Sept I’m raising a full reading to $300 or $100 for each stand alone reading!

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The Bagua

I’ve had a crazy busy week. Normally, I check the cat boxes and food daily. I realized I hadn’t looked at them since Monday, which means my daughter was in charge without supervision…… and that’s why the shit hit the fan… literally and figuratively.

My cat boxes are in my wealth area of my house. It is the only place that made sense and was out of the way. I made this work by making sure they were well kept and the surrounding area was cleaned every day. For two years this has been fine, until this week.

This week has been a cluster of forgotten payments, overdrafts, unexpected expenses and set backs. I was like w….t….f…..!!!!

Then I came home to my daughter gagging. Yeah, a cat must have EXPLODED. All over the cat box area. It was gross. And it clearly happened yesterday…. in my defense, I came home and went to bed yesterday.

Yesterday was when the catalyst happened and today just got worse.

Am I saying feung Shui magically caused my problems? No. But I am showing that there is a connection that can’t be denied.

If you want to figure out what problems you are having look at your house. Do you have clutter built up? Are you shoving crap in drawers and closets? Are you neglecting cleaning? Look at what bagua area falls in your problem area and I can guarantee you are also having problems in that area of your life.

Clutter means you aren’t making room for that part of your life…

Shoving stuff in drawers means you shove your talents away and forget about them… you are probably confused about what you want to do in life

Closets a mess? The area that closet falls in likely has problems you shove aside and don’t deal with.

The list goes on and on, by your space shows your inner turmoil. And the easiest way to deal with that turmoil is to start cleaning your spaces. Opportunities, people and ideas will start flowing in once you clean up your space.

I’m excited to see what tomorrow brings now that I have cleaned up the shit that was covering my money area.